
When Dementia Affects a Caregiver, Pets Suffer Too: A Call to Look Out for One Anothe

Every so often, a story crosses our path that shakes us to the core — not because we want to hear it, but because we need to.
Recently, a heartbreaking situation made its way into the news:
A man living with dementia forgot he had a dog. His beloved companion, confused and alone, became trapped in the basement with no food. The only thing keeping him alive was water from a slowly leaking pipe. When a plumber was called to fix the pipe, he discovered the dog — starving, covered in mold and dirt, and clinging to survival.
The plumber immediately rushed him to a veterinarian. Today, the dog is receiving the care, nourishment, and love he desperately needed.
But the truth is… this never should have happened.
And this is why we need to talk about it.
Why This Story Matters to Every Pet Parent
Our pets rely on us completely.
For food.
For warmth.
For companionship.
For protection.
But what happens when the caregiver — through age, illness, or memory loss — can no longer provide that care?
This story is a reminder that:
👉 Many older adults are caring for pets they deeply love.
👉 Illness like dementia can make consistent care impossible.
👉 Their pets have no voice and no way to ask for help.
We often check on our friends and neighbors to see how they are doing… but how often do we check on their pets?
A Simple Act of Kindness Can Save a Life
Today, and in the days ahead, I encourage you to take a moment to reach out to:
An elderly neighbor or relative
A friend recovering from illness
Someone living alone with a pet
Any pet parent who might be overwhelmed
Ask how they’re doing.
Ask how their pet is doing.
Offer support if you can — even small things like picking up pet food, helping with walks, or checking in weekly.
Our pets depend not just on their caregivers… but sometimes on the community around them.
How to Check In Compassionately
Here are a few gentle ways to start:
🐾 “How’s your sweet [pet’s name] doing this week?”
🐾 “Do you need help picking up food or supplies?”
🐾 “If you ever need a hand with walks or feeding, I’m here.”
🐾 “I’d love to come by and see you both!”
More often than not, people are relieved someone noticed.
Pet Wellness Tip of the Week: Support Their Liver With Milk Thistle ❤️

Liver health is critical for detoxification, especially in pets dealing with medications, environmental toxins, or age-related challenges.
Milk thistle is a gentle, effective way to support a healthy liver.
Start slow:
👉 begin with ¼ of the recommended dose,
👉 gradually increase over 4 weeks,
👉 and always monitor how your pet responds.
Small, consistent steps can make a big difference in long-term wellness.
Final Thoughts
This week’s story is sad — but it’s also powerful. It reminds us to be the eyes, ears, and hands for pets whose caregivers may no longer be able to provide daily care.
A simple knock on a door…
A quick text…
A friendly check-in…
…could save a life.
Let’s continue looking out for one another — humans and animals alike.



